As a cycle breaker, you'll never be able to prove your worth to them
As a cycle breaker/black sheep, you’ll never be able to prove your worth to them, because:
Your values and value are inherently different.
Riffing on the quote: if you grew up in a family of squirrels as a fish, and were judged by your ability to climb a tree, you’d feel inadequate all your life.
They’ll keep moving the goal posts.
When you’ve finally figured out how to climb trees, they’ll complain about how terrible you are at spinning webs, or how you don’t seem to care about laying eggs like they do.
You can never win.
They are committed to misunderstanding you.
Why would you want to waste energy and tears on this any longer?
There is a whole ocean full of fish for you to explore and thrive in. Where you will swim and flow naturally and most gracefully, by being you.
It’s time to stop feeling not-good-enough. Let’s flip the script.
Imagine being so comfortable and grounded in yourself that the idea of proving yourself to them seems comical.
Because you know who you are, what your purpose is, you trust your intuition, and know that you are supported by a whole damn spirit helper team.
Imagine knowing, really knowing in your heart, that the very things that make you different are your greatest gifts and most valuable contributions.
There is immeasurable joy in contributing to the world by being your own authentic self, doing the things you love.
There is nothing to prove.